In all areas of life there looms the competitive force which declares that for there to be winners, there must be losers. The idea that everyone can win seems missing. Even in sports, no game is allowed to end in a tie.
The 1970s produced a number of simulation games which immediately became popular with high school and college students. The name of one game was “Win As Much As You Can.” Players were divided into several teams. Each team elected a representative who would meet with other team representatives in a sort of summit where each would cast a vote for the decision his team authorized.
After the designated number of rounds, scores were totaled and the winning team announced. At the end of the game the players were stunned to discover that the only way they could win the most was to help the other teams win as well.
What causes us to think that for us to be a winner someone has to be a loser? How might we work toward the goal of everyone becoming winners?
A clergyman who was accosted by a parishioner, accusing him of not believing in hell, asked the woman, “Madam, how many people would have to go to hell for you to be satisfied?”
The great Energy of the Universe is a benevolent energy that wills the good, the true, and the beautiful for all. May we attune ourselves to the music of that energy.
Ann Glover O'Dell 
We live in a reality of duality. When our consciousness attests to this duality, our thinking follows suit. For there to be winners (us) there must be losers (them.)
We can rise above this level of consciousness to a place of unitive consciousness. There we find oneness and wholeness, and this reality of opposites no longer controls our thinking. In this state, we judge no more.
Thank you Ann for your beautifully written post.